Why Do You Need Relationships?
Have you ever sat down to ask yourself: Why do I need this relationship? Why am I in this relationship? Recently, I started taking an online course from the University of Toronto on The Art and Science of Relationships , and it has been such a blessing. It's not just opening my eyes to the “how-tos” of relationships but also to the why —the core reason behind our desire for connection. And I want to say this early on: When I talk about relationships here, I’m not just talking about dating or romantic relationships. I’m talking about every kind of relationship—friendships, family, mentorships, work relationships, spiritual community, and so on. Here’s something I’ve learned that I want you to hold on to: Relationships don’t just meet our emotional needs—they help define who we are. Think about it. You didn’t become who you are in isolation. The things you've seen, the words spoken over you, the love you’ve received—or didn’t receive—the affirmations, the criticisms, the encourag...